Rediscovering My Hobby

A lot of people may know that I love photography. Taking pictures, looking at pictures others have taken, it all makes me so happy. A little over a year ago I invested in a nicer camera, and had all the intentions of getting to know it in and out. Well things happened and I had to put all that on hold. During my break I picked up my camera again, and the spark was ignitated again. I was out and about clicking away, I even met up with a friend for a mini sneaker shoot. It’s been so much fun taking pictures and editing. With school back in session and it getting dark earlier it’s going to be tricky heading out to shoot, but I’m going to try and do so every other week. 

Here’s some of my pictures from the summer. I posted some of these on IG @Xo_MermaidKisses and I made a separate IG account just for my pictures for me to see and keep track. Sort of as a learning tool to see progress. You’re more than welcome to give it a look and follow if you want: @DVA.Frames. 


Bay shore, NJ

Grounds For Sculpture; Hamilton, NJ
Self portraits are new to me.
Firdt time doing long exposure
Shot I took of my friend Frank
Patrick Mohr, one of my favorite pairs of sneakers. New Brunswick, NJ
Bay Shore, NJ
Union Sqaure, NY
Seaside Heights, NJ

What are your hobbies? Is there something you would like to get into or learn?


XOXO

Desiree

Let’s Get Back to The Grind…

Hey cupcakes.

 It’s been too long, but I won’t apologize. I had to take some time off and just enjoy life. Don’t get me wrong, I missed blogging, and you guys; but after the semester I had I decided to enjoy the summer with my family. Guess what, it was the right thing to do. I don’t believe that blogging should be forced, it should be something that makes you happy (mostly, there are some headaches attached), and content should come naturally. I wasn’t in a space where I could really give it my all, because my mind just wasn’t there. That’s not to say I didn’t think about my blog, or posts; I did and came up with loads of great ideas. I took tons of pictures to go along with the posts too. Now it’s just a matter of editing and posting. I also have video to edit for my YouTube channel, and am thinking of revamping things over there, so be on the lookout for that. 

I know being consistent is key when it comes to the “blogging world”, and I really want to be as consistent as possible; however life for me isn’t so consistent. Work is not a regular 9-5, I have school, kids, and other life events. I can’t promise I’ll be here 2x a week, or that I won’t take a break again. What I can promise is to be honest, and try to provide you with some great content, and maybe a laugh or two. With I that being said I’ll be around more, but some rings will be changing here also. I want to share a bit more of my life with everyone, so I’ll be doing some “life updates” from time to time, along with other things I’ll start incorporating. 

Thank you to those who have stuck around. I appreciate you all, and can’t wait to start posting more. I’m also slowl trying to catch up on blogs and videos (I’ve been slacking hard!).  In the meantime I’m off to enjoy some of the warm summer weather before the cold rolls around. 

How was your summer? Did you do you take any special trips, or do anything special?
XOXO,

Desiree



Seaside Heights, NJ 

Summer 2016

July Currently…

So it’s been awhile, I don’t know what to say other than I have just been out of it a bit. I have so many ideas, and have taken so many pictures/videos but just haven’t been able to really sit down and do much. However I do want to share some of my currents, so here we go. 

Doing:

So I’ve been busy being out and about with the family since it’s summer and we’re trying to soak up all the sun we can. I made it to the beach, but it was late so I couldn’t go swimming. I hope that will change soon. I have also been busy finally trying to launch our chapter of Geek Girl Brunch. This is super exciting since I’ve been trying for awhile now, and have just not been able to for various reasons. 

TV:

I’m working through a few shows including OITNB, Preacher, Fear of the Walking Dead, Psych (rewatching), and Mr. Robot just to name a few. 

Gaming:

I have been playing more games, which is making me happy and have even began streaming on Twitch. Feel free to check me out if you’d like, drop by and say hi if you see me around: Mermaid Kisses on Twitch. I only have one video up due to the fact that I didn’t realize I hadn’t selected the option to archive my streams. I’ll have another post going into more detail on the games I’ve been playing.

Reading:

I’m so behind on reading, I have two books to finish and review. I should have those up by the end of the month, early August. 

General:

Overall I’m just kinda out of sorts and I don’t really know why. It’s weird. I have no motivation, but I have been keeping up with walking/jogging on my days off, and other self care things. I see myself slipping into depression again a bit, but the usual stuff that helps isn’t really cutting it. I do have some time off scheduled in the next few weeks and I’m hoping this will help. 

Some good news, me and the familia were able to secure our tickets for NYCC. It was so stressful, and at first I thought we would be out a ticket. Thankfully for online friends, someone helped me out and we were able to secure the last ticket we needed (max # of tickets you can buy is 4, and my family is 5). So I’m excited to have that out the way, and know we’re in. 
So that’s it in a nutshell. I hope to get back into the swing of things, and finally get around to posting both here and on my YouTube channel, along with more streams on Twitch. 

What are some of your currents?


Just wanted to share this because after this past week’s madness I think we all need some good vibes. Take care of yourselves, and be safe.


Xoxo,

Desiree

Vans x Nintendo 

Hello loves. Earlier this month Vans released their line in collaboration with Nintendo. Being an 80s baby I fell instantly in love with the old school Nintendo themes. My kiddos also picked a pair each. The lovely weather this past weekend was perfect to head outdoors and get some pics. 


3 out of the 4 (1 of my guys is missing here) decided to go with the NES controller style. We picked up the Mario and Luigi pair for Squish.



How cute are the hi tops for toddlers!


I’m really digging the hi tops version. Seeing them on my oldest son’s feet makes me want to go out and get a pair of my own.


I like that “Game Over” was added to the bottoms of the sneakers.



I didn’t get a chance to  take photos of the Zelda slip ons I picked up, but check back later in the week and I’ll have a post about them. I have to admit that these are my favorite collaboration that Vans has done so far. They’re so fun and nostalgic. Check out the rest of the line including Princess Peach and Donkey Kong
Did you pick up anything from the release? Which ones are your favorite?


Xoxo

Desiree

5 Fandom Friday: Favorite Podcasts

Hello lovelies and welcome to another 5 Fandom Friday. It’s been awhile since I’ve done a 5FF, but I couldn’t pass up the opportunity to share some of my favorite podcasts. as always thanks to the fabulous gals Megan over at The Nerdy Girlie and Kristi at Super Space Chick for coming up with 5FF and the prompts. Here are my picks in no particular order.


1. The Read

The Read is a weekly podcast hosted by Kid Fury and Crissle that covers hip hop and pop culture, along with bringing awareness to issues faced by POC, and some current events. At the end of each episode the host go on to “Read” someone, or an event that has pissed them off. I honestly laugh from beginning to end, or shout out an Amen here and there,  and find myself nodding in agreement when they tackle some of the current events. I’ll warn everyone that it’s NSFW since there’s cursing involved. You don’t have to be heavy into hip hop to enjoy the show, they cover pop culture in general; and Kid Fury is one of us with his love of games and all things geek.


2. The Friend Zone

Join Assante, Fran, and Dustin every Wednesday as they discuss mental hygiene and ways to try to live a happier better life. Why I love it? POC discussing mental health needs and overall well being. In general mental heal needs is an area I’m always pushing for discussion in since I work in the field, and the importance of POC to speak on these issues is so needed. But don’t get it twisted this isn’t just some boring podcasts addressing medical terminology and such. Fran is chock full of awesome holistic approaches for all sorts of well being. They’re funny, they’re genuine, and you can tell they really are friends and want to make a difference in people’s life. This one may also be NSFW due to swearing.


3. Fake Goth Girls

I briefly mentioned Fake Goth Girls last week in one of my post, so of course I had to include them. Join Liz and Mia every week as they discuss women issues, geek culture, and adulting. They’re super cute, funny, and always entertaining. They’re best friends, and that works so well with the way they interact on the show. I’m always learning about some cool new game, or podcast, and other awesome geeks in the world through their show.


4. Criminal

Criminal isn’t just about crimes, it’s about people who have either done something wrong, have had something wrong done to them, are in involved in the justice system in some way, or just so happen to be caught up in some wrong doing. They discuss not just current crimes, but incidents that have happened in the past too. I love hearing when they interview some of the people involved and hearing the backstories.


5. Slate Money

Okay guys I’ll admit in terms of money I don’t have much, but I’m still super interested in economy and growing ones personal wealth. Slate Money features Felix Salmon of Fusion, Cathy O’Neil of MathBabe.org, and Jordan Weissman of Slate. The trio have good chemistry, and have a way of talking about money, and issues involving money in a way I get. If you would’ve asked me a year ago if Iwould listen to this based of the title I might’ve said no, but I’m so glad I gave it a shot.

I listen to so many podcasts that picking just 5 was tough. I tried giving a good mix of things I listen to. Feel free to share with me your favorite podcasts. 

Xoxo,

Desiree

Hello June

Goals and current obsessions for June.

I know we’re like almost halfway into June but I still wanted to share some of the things currently occupying my time, along with some goals. So here we go.


TV: 

I’ve been trying to catch up on all the shows I missed during school. Finally caught up on The Walking Dead and OITNB. I started Agents of S.H.E.I.L.D and I’m really enjoying it. I also started and I’m caught up with Sherlock, so good! I’m going to be moving onto Fear of the Walking Dead, Jessica Jones, Daredevil, Agent Carter, and hopefully finally diving into Doctor Who. I’m also currently staying up to date with Game of Thrones, Silicon Valley, and Preacher.

Games:

I started playing WOW last month and have been enjoying it. I went on my first raid with my brother and I think I did pretty good. I also started playing Guild Wars 2 after hearing the gals over on Fake Goth Girls podcast rave about it. I’m still pretty new to it and I’m not entirely sure I’m doing it right, but I like it and will be sticking with it. And of course I’m playing Overwatch on PS4 and having loads of fun with it. Currently I enjoy playing as D.Va and Tracer.

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Music:

Besides Hamilton, I’ve been listening to just different streams and Beyonce’s Lemonade. It’s so so good, and I can’t get enough of the visuals. If you have yet to watch the video/film, please do. The images, the poetry in between, so many beautiful strong women, check it out when you have time to pay attention to it all. I think I may have heard the album, like 100x and still every time Sandcastles comes on the tears start to flow. When Bey’s voice hits that one note and it kinda cracks, Lord it hits my feelings for so many reasons.  Sorry is just that song to throw on those days you feel like you’ve had about enough, and bounce around with your middle fingers up.

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Goals

On to some June Goals:

  • Get to the beach at least 2x. Y’all know summer is my season, and I’m ready to feel the sand in my toes and smell the ocean.
  • Content, content, content. Just trying to get as much queued before August rolls around and school is back in session. So far I’ve been able to put out posts on a weekly basis, so that’s good.
  • Edit and upload more frequently to my Youtube channel. I have so much footage, including form my trip to Puerto Rico, but just haven’t really gotten around to editing.
  • Try to workout 2x a week. I’ll tell you right now, I’m already failing at this. Let’s see if I can make it up somehow.

 

What are some of the things you’re currently into? Do you have goals for June? 

Review: Ka-Brow by Benefit

Hello cupcakes. This past Sunday I was invited by Sephora to a VIB Rogue event where I got to preview some items that are not yet on the market. It was nice to see the products, and have the store mostly to ourselves since it was a closed event. While there I asked about a few products and ask for suggestions for eyebrow products. The overly gal recommended Ka-Brow, and eyebrow color gel (cream?) by Benefit. 

 I currently use powder for my brows, and explained to her the issues I had with wiping it away at times, and how I felt it got darker at times. She assured me with this product I wouldn’t have those problems. Once the gel sets it’s on. I was intrigued as she proceeded to show us how to use it. 

It comes in this little silver container, along with a booklet with instructions and tips. At first I thought this won’t do, I’ll probably go through that so fast. You twist the piece and the bottom comes off to reveal a small pot of gel, the top then comes apart and there’s a brush there.


My brows are dark so we went with the shade in the number 6, my friend’s brows are lighter and she was able to find a natural looking match for her too. So you use the gel by dipping the brush into the gel and applying it onto your brows. I warn you though all you need is a dab, a little goes a long way. 


You can fill in your brows for a natural look, and build up from there for a more sculpted look. However you like your brows to be this product can get you there. The staying power is amazing. You have about 2-3 minutes to work with the gel before it sets, allowing you to build it up or dab some away if need be. I’ve used it a few times now and my brows look just as good at the end of the day as they did in the morning. I live in Jersey and it’s been hot and humid these past few days, but that has not made this gel budge. At night it was easy to take off with the makeup remover I use.  


With just a teeny dab I was able to draw out these 3 lines on my hand. All the worries I had of using this product up quickly have been laid to rest. I am positive that this little pot is going to go a long way. 


I’m more than happy to have picked this up. It’s so easy to use and versatile. Whether I’m going for a natural look or a more dramatic one, I can achieve it with this. The sales girl did inform me that Ka-Brow isn’t scheduled to be released until late June, early July. Once it goes on the market you should stop by Sephora, or a Benefit counter and try it out for yourself. Now that summer is upon us the last thing we need to worry about is our brows getting jacked up, Ka-Brow will make sure they don’t. 

What new products are you looking forward to try? What are your fave beauty products? I’m always looking for suggestions and new things to try.


XOXO,

Desiree

On the Small Screen: Recap OITNB

Hey y’all. So because of school and life I have fallen behind on most of my shows. This sucks for me because I’ve been dipping and dodging spoilers as much as I can. I was finally able to catch up and finish two shows this past week. Here’s a quick review, and  as always I try not to give any spoilers.

 

Orange is the New Black

Okay so I’m a big fan of the show, however this past season wasn’t the best for me. Now I’m fully aware that all seasons won’t be stellar, I’m realistic. I’m not even saying it was a bad season, it was just sorta lacking. It still had it’s funny parts, which is one of the main reason I watch really. 

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This season we’re back with the prison under new management, which affects everyone there. Staff and prisoners alike are trying to make adjustments. Along with the new management, they have bought in some new, secret high paying job that all the inmates are dying to get a spot in. We also see Dayanara facing the all too real soon to be birth of her baby, and trying to figure that whole situation out. Her relationship with her mom is also digger into deeper, and while at times she can be a bitch you get that deep down she really wants to do good for her kids and what’s best for them.

I love most of the characters, except Piper she just has begun to piss me off. I don’t know what it is about her, but yeah I’m over her. The whole panty scheme she has going on while creative has lead her to think she has some sort of power ala Godfather. This is causing a bit of tension between her and Alex. It’s ok, ultimately she’s put in a bit of a predicament. Ha!!

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I love seeing the background for all the characters also, and I’m looking forward to seeing more stories in the upcoming season. I feel like the writers do a great job in this area. Letting us into the character’s before prison, the mistakes that were made and circumstances surrounding their choices. I especially liked seeing Chang’s background and have grown fond of her character. Besides she’s like super resourceful! Seeing more of her character, and understating her past has opened a spot in my heart for her. I also liked that the writers touched on depression this season. One of the characters is having a hard time and is affected by it, and let’s just say it wasn’t dealt with too well by the staff.

So while this season was a bit underwhelming, I’ll still be tuning in for the new season. It did end with a cliffhanger of course, and it was set up nicely. All the gals were having a bit of a break, but we see that won’t be lasting long. I’m looking forward to seeing how the story unfolds.

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Season 4 premieres June 17, so I’m kinda glad I put off watching the last season until now. I don’t have to wait so long to see what happens next. I have to say I am excited for this season. I feel like it’s going to ramp up again. We’ll see if I’m right about that.

 

Are you watching OITNB? Who’s your favorite character? 

 

XOXO,

Desiree

 

 

 

What I’m Playing Now: Mobile Games

Hello cupcakes and welcome back. Today I want to share with you two games I’m currently addicted with. They help me kill time in between my meetings. 

Stack


So as the title suggests this is pretty much a stacking game. The pieces move back and forth and you have to tap it at the right time to stack it on top of each other. Easy right? Not so easy actually. Whenever you miss stacking it correctly whatever amount or piece that’s hanging over the edge falls off, which now makes your piece smaller. And the higher you get the faster the pieces move back and forth. I’ve only made it to about 47 or so. It’s really entertaining and the color schemes are nice to look at. Every time you start a new game a new color scheme starts. The pieces start off as one color and gradually change. 

Sailor Drops


Of course I’m playing Sailor Drops, how could I not. It’s a puzzle game where you match up lines of jewels (like Candy Crush but jewels instead), in order to score. Different combinations of matching make a special jewel. The levels vary from regular ole beat the score, to timed ones, collect the accessories, and one where you’re up against the villain. Everything is extra fun because of the Sailor Moon theme, well at least to me it is. However there are some downs. Initially it kinda lags a bit to start up, not like crazy but enough to be annoying at times. Also you get interrupted by the characters. Like you’ll be on a roll and all of a sudden whoever you’re playing as will pop up and cheer. While the concept is cute, it becomes annoying. I’ll be in the zone and bam a scout pops up and interrupts my game. It’s by no means a deal breaker. Also if you have like 5 moves left and it doesn’t seem like you’re gonna win your character starts giving you disappointing looks, and gets all down. I find myself telling it, “Hey now you don’t know that I’m gonna loose this board, I could still pull it out somehow.” This game is right up my alley since I’m probably one of the free people that still plays Candy Crush. 
What games are you currently playing on your phone? 


XOXO,

Desiree

On the Big Screen~ Captain America: Civil War

Hello lovelies. I finally made it to the theater this past weekend and got to watch Captain America: Civil War. First off when ever I do my reviews I try not to go too deep into thing, and post spoilers. With that being said it does make it hard to do reviews while trying not to giveaway too much.


Okay so here we go. The acting as always was spot on. I think for the most part we can all agree that acting isn’t a major concern when it comes to these movies. I loved the introduction of Black Panther, played by Chadwick Boseman, and am very happy with the the way he executed his part. Another character I was pleasantly surprised with was Spider-Man, played by Tom Holland. Look I’ll be honest I’m kinda over Spider-Man with all the movies and reboots, but this take on him was refreshing and spot on. In other words it’s the Spider-Man I always wanted. That’s just me, I’m sure not everyone feels the same way. Kudos to the writers for getting it right.
Story, overall I had a general idea of what to expect going in and was happy with the writing. I wasn’t sure exactly how it was going to be executed, but I think they did a good job with it. The only thing that wasn’t 100% for me was the villain. Like oaky I get why he did what he did, but something about him as the villain just didn’t make me believe it all the way. Not horrible, but I feel like maybe there could’ve been more, or maybe a different villain. Eh let’s move on from that because I’m clearly having a difficult time trying to translate how I feel.

Now on to action. Well I think we all know how that goes. It was full of cool fighting scenes, and explosions of course. I have to say that they didn’t go overboard or add things just to have action going on in the movie. The sequences came together and were well executed. I think fans will walk out happy with the scenes, and all the heroes kicking butt.

Overall I would give the movie a 4 out of 5. It was a great movie, with just the right amount of action. I would definitely go see it again. Now bring on Black Panther!!
Did you watch Civil War? What are your thoughts? 

XOXO,

Desiree